Boyfriend rubbed his penis on my vagina and now my periods is delayed. Am I pregnant?

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  • #65720
     Nanosharu 
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    #65720

    Hello.

    My bf touched and rubbed his penis on my vagina but he did not ejaculate on me or inside me. We did not have any intercourse. I am still a virgin. He washed his penis before doing this to remove any semen if present. Even after that I urinated and washed my vagina. My last period date was 20 Dec it’s 30 of Jan now but still no sign of periods! :sad: Am I pregnant? Please give me your suggestions. :cry:

  • #65730
    nupoor_n nupoor_n 
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    #65730

    I don’t think you are pregnant. There are cases where you can be pregnant because of pre-cum. But I think it’s a just a scare. Do get a pee-stick, and be sure if you’re pregnant or not.
    Generally, it’s not a good idea to start without condoms. Condoms help prevent these pregnancy scares and prevent stress related hair loss as well.
    Also, washing the private parts and urinating is a good practice to prevent UTIs, not pregnancy.
    So high chances you are not pregnant, and not have an STD/UTI.

    Take care, and don’t do such things without precaution if you can’t afford a baby right now.

  • #65733
     Nanosharu 
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    #65733

    Thanks for ua suggestion….made me feel better…yep I won’t allow him to do it again without a condom :nono:

  • #65740
     Smita T 
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    #65740

    From what you have described, there are very less chances of you being pregnant. It might be the stress of thinking you are pregnant which maybe delaying your period. Stress is known to delay period!! But just to be sure , get a pregnancy test done.

  • #65741
     Nanosharu 
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    #65741

    Yep Smita..Thanks 4 the suggestion… :yes: I’m gonna do the pregnancy test… I’m sure dat I’m not pregnant….did not feel any of the symptoms of pregnancy yet

  • #65742
     Ipsa Hasa 
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    #65742

    Hey dont worry its not so easy to be pregnant…It happens only in movies that one intimate scene and gal is vomiting next day morning :dance: so don’t worry just be cautious to use protection always…it will safeguard you from any STD or any unwanted pregnancy..If you are still not sure than check with test kit.

  • #65748
     Nanosharu 
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    #65748

    :biggrin: heehee….Thanks 4 the advice Ipsa

  • #65765
    pllvb pllvb 
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    #65765

    From what you have described, the chances of pregnancy are bleak. However, get the test done. You can use over the counter kits for it. Whether you decide to go all the way or not, use protection always! You were a virgin and now you are a stressed virgin. Nobody had fun and plus all the pregnancy scare. Please take care next time. Hope you get your periods soon.

  • #65787
     Radhika08 
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    #65787

    Hey girls..my last lmp was same as 20dec nd i had intercourse with my partner,nd had done the pregnancy test and its negative.still my periods are not coming…its been 11 days…what should i do??? Plz help me.. :cry:

    • #65798
       Saloni_fizzy sparkles 
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      #65798

      Ummm 11 days is okay.. at times the periods get delayed due to a lot of different factors other than pregnancy.. but did you use protection while having sex? If not, then do a pregnancy test once more.. do the test a couple of times and if it shows negative every-time, then you might not be pregnant.. just relax a bit and visit a doctor if needed.. and do have protected sex next time so that you don’t have to worry so much :headbang:

    • #65802
       Radhika08 
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      #65802

      Thanks saloni,
      I have tested on pee stick 3 Times it says negative,and also had done Beta HCG Test and it Counts 2 and as per Google,you need atleast 7 score to get pregnant on beta HCG. and we did’nt used the condom..May be You are right have to consult with Doctor… But in Delhi goin to a doctor is very risky,bcz when they know,the couple is in live in relationship,they do many tantrums…m very much scare now…

    • #65807
       Saloni_fizzy sparkles 
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      #65807

      Do visit a doctor without getting scared.. not all doctors would behave that way.. just don’t look very scared in front of the doctor.. and they are not going to ask you anything about your marriage so don’t worry. do visit if necessary.. and next time have safe sex so that you don’t have to go through this unnecessary chaos

    • #65813
       Radhika08 
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      #65813

      Actualy My partner is out of station,so i have to go to doctor alone ,nd he is saying that no need to tell doctor about our relation,as we have already tested the pregnancy,so go simply and make a normal checkup… But i am in great confusion whether i will tell about the Intercourse or not to doctor?? :waa:

  • #65796
     Saloni_fizzy sparkles 
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    #65796

    There are no chances of pregnancy from what you say.. because it has to go inside for you to get pregnant.. however a pre-cum may also increase the chances.. But don’t stress so much and your periods will come.. do a pregnancy test and it will give you relief when it shows negative.. and rather than getting scared for the entire month, next time do use a condom to avoid this stress that you are going through..

  • #65851
     Nanosharu 
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    #65851

    Thanks all 4 ya suggestions….made me feel calm now… :yes: my by said that he read on Internet that when male and female genitals are touched and rubbed against each other there is a change in female hormone as the body gets confused….so the periods get delayed…is it true ? :headscratch:

  • #65859
     tanya20025 
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    #65859

    Get a pee stick and test once. With the description you gave, chances are very less that you would have conceived but please be careful in the future and use protection if you don’t intend to get pregnant.

    Tanya

  • #65931
     Nanosharu 
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    #65931

    Yep tanya I’m gonna buy a pee stick and do the test…I hope I start my periods soon.. :sad:

  • #66674
     Nanosharu 
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    #66674

    It’s Feb 4 still no sign of periods…I’m really worried…. and scared too :scared:

    • #66675
       Madhur 
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      #66675

      Then why don’t you take the pregnancy test? It’s easy to do or go to a gynecologist for check-up, rather than speculating if you are pregnant or not.

  • #66676
     Nanosharu 
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    #66676

    I’m gonna buy a pee stick n do the test on Feb 8th…because I’m going to meet my bf on that day… :sad: ….but still I’m scared :scared: :cry:

  • #67383
     Nanosharu 
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    #67383

    I did the test on pee stick …its negative :drool: but why I skipped my periods den? :headscratch:

    • #67385
      nupoor_n nupoor_n 
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      #67385

      Yay!!! :pompom: :pompom: :pompom: Mithai baanto. Na ladka hua hai na ladki. :hihi: :hihi: :hihi:

    • #69451
      Shivangi.Chauhan Shivangi.Chauhan 
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      #69451

      haha nupoor i can’t help laughing on this statement :tongue: :tongue: :tongue: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: *shameless*

  • #69443
     Nanosharu 
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    #69443

    2 months hogaya still periods nai….my mom is asking me again n again how I skipped my periods ? :cry: :waa:

    • #69444
       Anj 
      Participant
      #69444

      Visit doctor.

    • #69452
      Shivangi.Chauhan Shivangi.Chauhan 
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      #69452

      Have you ever in your life skipped period before? I am just saying that there could be other reasons as well. I have hormonal issues because of that i didn’t use to have periods for months. Better go to the doctor. And remember PROTECTION no matter what you do ; rub, touch, see! Nothing without a condom!

  • #69491
     Nanosharu 
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    #69491

    No I had never skipped my periods b4….even I’m not pregnant had done the test too…. :cry:

  • #70819
     Nanosharu 
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    #70819

    Periods started :drool: :biggrin: ….
    Aaya re aaya :balle: :pompom:

    • #70824
      nupoor_n nupoor_n 
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      #70824

      Congrats, now you’ll never crib about getting periods for some time. :tongue:

  • #70826
     Nanosharu 
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    #70826

    Heehee… :dance: yaaa

  • #76578
     Aashka 
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    #76578

    Hey,
    You must not be pregnant. You can check same with home pregnancy kits easily available in medical stores.
    Once confirmed negative, try having warm things like chicken soup of u r non vegetarian/dry fruits. This trick helps me to get periods.
    Delay of periods might involve many reasons. Wait for few more days and refer a good gynae. She will surely help you.
    If this was first time someone did soemthing like that with u, the excitement of hormones also might delay your periods. Or stress you are going through. Or any hormonal imbalances which needs to be treated.
    First of all, just check it and wait!

  • #87178
     Inayat 
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    #87178

    My boyfrnd also rubbed his penis over my vagina but after 2 weeks i took the pregnancy test and this was negative I took it then when I missed my periods but next day I had my periods those this means I’m not pregnant because the result was negative and i m very much worried

  • #87196
     Rekh rekha 
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    #87196

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